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Make Sex and romance a priority
In today’s society there is a high percent
of married couples that are living in a sexless marriage. In order to prevent
this in your own marriage we must take the following 4 steps:
1. Make sex and romance a high priority - In
our e-book called “Making Marriage Last” we talk about the importance of
scheduling in both romance and sex into our schedules. The benefit to doing this
is that both of you are prepared to give of yourselves totally to each other.
Most Couples today with children and very busy schedules so planning ahead is
necessary.
2. Romance each other – No matter high long
you have been married it is important that you romance each other. There is
several ways that you can romance your spouse: Purchase a special gift. It could
be as simple as a card, favorite candy, ice cream, sports tickets, dress or
pants. It is not necessary for your gift to be expense; a balloon from the
dollar store could be very encouraging to your mate. Remember it is the thought
that counts. So, let your spouse know you think of them often to avoid the risk
of having a sexless marriage.
3. Keep the communication lines open - Of
course we all know that open communication is paramount to maintaining a good
relationship and will definitely help in improving your sex life. Discussing
what you like or dislike when it comes to sex is important to meeting each
other’s needs sexually.
4. Choose to forgive - Do not keep a list of
wrongs against your mate. Learn to walk in forgiveness. Walking in forgiveness
helps to keep those channels between you and your spouse open. It is really hard
to be free in the area of intimacy if you are holding a grudge against your
mate.
These are just a couple thoughts on improving your sex and romance in your
marriage. Go ahead schedule a hot date with your mate today. By Phyllis
Breech
Benefits of sex
The are many benefits of having sex often. It
has been found that couple that averages having sex 2-3 times a week can
experience some of the following benefits:
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Sex brings you closer
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Sex is good for
whatever ails you.
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Sex can reduce
strokes by 50 %
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Sex Boost immune system
by 30%
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Sex can reduce a man
chances of having prostate cancer
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Sex is good for the
heart
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Excellent form of
exercise
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Men who have sex 3
times a week cut the rate of heart attack.
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Sex improves sleep and
improves a couples ability to relax
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Sex boost self esteem
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Sex tones your body
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Reduces the chances of
an affair.
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Strengthens the
emotion, physical and spiritual bond between couples.
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Sex can keep you cancer
free and improve your overall health.
Understand that you spouse is a gift. Take
advantage of the gift of sex. Take time to talk about how you feel about your
current sex life. Make time for each other, If necessary schedule time for sex
and intimacy. It is just that important to your relationship. Do it now carve
out time for each other to protect the relationship.
Make sex fun!
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